Judi Dench’s ‘grief’ over death of Maggie Smith

The interview on Saturday covered a wide range of topics, including Dame Judi’s life as an actress.

Towards the end of the session, O’Hea hesitated before saying: “I know I probably shouldn’t bring this up, I know the last week has been tricky for you because you lost your great friends Maggie Smith and Barbara Leigh-Hunt.”

Leigh-Hunt, an Olivier Award-winning actress, died last month at the age of 88. She and Dame Judi had appeared alongside each other in the 1992 BBC sitcom As Time Goes By.

O’Hea then brought up a previous explanation that Dame Judi had given, of how she copes with loved ones dying.

In a past interview with The Times, external, when discussing the aftermath of her husband’s death, she said: “Sometimes you have to do a play and it is really painful. That said, I’ve also found it unbelievably cathartic.

“You fortify yourself and use what you are going through as energy. Like petrol. It has helped me cope with the pain.”

O’Hea questioned her on that, asking: “You say that grief can act as petrol, what do you mean by that?”

Dench didn’t directly comment on either Smith or Leigh-Hunt, or her husband who died in 2001. But after mentioning her grief, she trailed off.

“It’s tricky. It’s tricky,” O’Hea jumped in.

Dench went on to talk about the trees she plants at her home in Surrey, in memory of her loved ones who have died.

She also laughed about how some of the trees grow to resemble the person they’re in honour of, while one of them, dedicated to the late actor Bob Peck, “won’t grow”.