Foster child’s ‘bright future’ and the need for more carers

Did they worry about taking on a stranger’s troubled background and reconcile that with the hope of all the rewards that come with the child flourishing in their care?

“For us it isn’t about the rewards – it’s about providing that opportunity for someone, regardless of what they bring to the door,” says Clive.

“We hope we have helped provide that support so Michael feels he can explore the world.

“You have to be patient, children in foster care will have been through a difficult time.

“That can be tricky and can be emotionally difficult but it’s about being there and standing by their side.

“It was a huge learning curve but I think we learned quite fast – we had to.”

Clive say it is “lovely” to now reminisce about Michael’s growing up.

“I probably wouldn’t have imagined that he would sit his GCSEs and go to school as much as he has but he has really pushed himself forward and dedicated himself to learning,” he says.

“I’m really proud of him.

“Michael wants to go to college, he has ambitions and dreams, which is great to see and we are really supportive of that, but if that doesn’t happen it doesn’t matter, there will always be something else.

“We are here for the long term for him.”

What would he say to anyone considering becoming a foster carer?

“Just do it.

“If you take pleasure in seeing people grow, become adults and learn, then just do it.”